i had an epiphany that day when i was shitting... if shi-piphany if you would have it. i realised that with all the changes i'm experiencing this year, be it work or relationships, this year should therefore start with a new year's resolution. however, new year's resolution seldom work for me.

in any case, i shall try to keep this one cos i personally think it's meaningful and possibly fulfilling. all in all, i think it would make me grow more as a person and definitely make me strive to better myself.

so my resolution for 2008 is......

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this year is going to be JUST about ME.

what kind of resolution is that? simply, this year i'm just going to focus on me.

i'm not going to be affected by external factors or things that i can't help with - granted it's going to be hard, but i'm going to try to not be affected. i think i've reached a point where things are the way they are and show no signs of changing. and if others want to change the situation together with me, i'd be more than willing (and happy) to, but if not i'm not going to let it affect me.

the JUST ME plan also includes me being more proactive and getting to know more people to expand my social circle. not only that, but i'm going to be taking classes to further my interests like photography, beading, languages etc...

so hopefully at the end of 2008, i can look back at this post and say that i have achieved what i had set out to do. *crosses fingers and toes*

oh! this plan doesn't include boys... ahhahahaha ^_^